Ashley Louise

I'm a lot of fun, I truly care and love to listen. I think and judge way to much. I hope you get to know me before you judge and ignore half the crap that is said about me. most of it isn't true.
December 4
0 | 4.12.2009 | 2 years ago

Relationships..

I’m going to talk about boyfriend/girlfriends..

People make it so much more complicated than it has to be. The big picture is that you have to learn to balance your time. I understand you and so and so, just started dating and you can’t spend enough time together, but trust me it will just start so many problems later. That first time the other person chooses to do something without you it is world war three! you are so use to doing everything together that when you choose not to it causes so many problems.  Then there is the other aspect if you spend that much time together, no matter how wonderful that person is, you will end up fighting. The worse part is you will fight about stupid shit. Causing way unnecessary problems from the beginning.  If you start doing this from the beginning you lose all the special moments couples have durning the first months of dating. You start taking for granted seeing each other. When you should get butterflies when you see them and count down the hours or days till the next time your in their arms. you will start annoy the shit out of their friends, because they cant just hangout without you tagging along. it is not that they hate you or don’t like you. But you know how you act different with your boy or girl around, they do the save thing when you are around. Girls, your boy isn’t as fun and doesn’t to stupid shit if you’re there that is all his guy friends care about.

If people would think about what they would do in the same situation there wouldn’t be so many problems. Example: if your boy or girl is away on a trip or studying or an exam and they can’t talk to you every min of the day it’s ok, i promise! You can talk in a few days for hours and you can still text, but it is not the end of the world. You do not need to know what the other person is doing every min of the day. Let them live and have fun, you’re not married yet!!

Just breath and don’t worry and take each day as it is, be happy and enjoy life. Don’t rush anything it will come you will meet the special someone. That turns out to be perfect for you!

my one year aniversery gift. I said I wanted dinner in front of the effile tower! He drew and cooked everything himself! : ) This is what a relationship should be, making impossible things possible!

ashley louise <3